Can I motivate you?

No, the answer is straight forward no. Then how I can help? No my dear friends I also can not help. Then why I am writing all this? Here is the answer. I want you to search the answers yourself because who is I am to tell you, what should you do or not do? I want you to search the answers inside your heart. I want you to search for the answer for why you should need motivation? Let’s understand this example why you aspire for healthy and delicious food because you want to make your good healthy and strong and simultaneously you want to satisfy your taste buds. The answer of above questions lies in it. Motivation is a good and healthy food for life and strong satisfier for your spiritual self. It makes our life healthy and strong.

As everyone wants healthy and strong body similarly everyone also wants a healthy and strong life. A good dose of motivation can do it. Motivation may be of any kind from parents, from a love or from a strong desire. A well motivated person can achieve things in months which can not be achieved by people in years. Most of the fine works of literature and art work have emerged from a strong motivation. Motivation can create wonders or even miracles. There is nothing impossible for a motivated person. More strong is the motivation, more strong are the results. Only we need to search our source of motivation like for an unmarried man motivation may be a rich beautiful girl and due to this motivation he may create miracle.

Nothing is impossible when we see them through the eyes of motivation. Otherwise those people who avoid this principle lose the right to live a healthy and strong live and it is the principle of nature that beauty and fame goes to strongest. With this life of the person become like a loser and he has to mostly compromise with the life, in clear terms his life become a compromise and nothing else. Now it is up to you what you want, a life of a hero or a life of compromises. I can show and realize you few facts of life however the real answer is hidden inside you. Search for it before you lose the power to act.

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Nature plays a great balancing act

Nature has an eye which sees everyone on this earth with equal importance. For it no one is more important. Nature decisions are totally independent of any bias. It punishes the guilty and rewards the good one. Many people in this world do lot of wrong doings in life and think that they will come out of all this without any difficulty. But nature play its role make guilty person responsible for his crimes like many people earn lot of money by using wrong means, however when comes the time to use this money both sons of that person die. I have seen many live examples of these kinds. Many people become rich in front of me by black marketing. It took years for them to grow to this level but nature took all of them in seconds.

Nature has its clear law; no one can run from its justice. Sometimes it looks that the person has earned lot of money by wrong doing and nothing is happening to him. Always remember nature do its job silently and even some times we are not aware of them e.g. a similar rich person got to know after twenty years that he was not the real father of his children. Nature is working in a balanced way. If it gives somewhere more then simultaneously it took something away from use also. Mostly we do not give due importance to nature and go on play our games but when nature plays its games then we have no place to hide.

It is always better to live a healthy and good life. We should always give proper respect to the rights of others. If we do not respect the rights of others and try to drain from others resources then we may be successful for years but nature will take all this from us in minutes. Those people who do not respect the nature always repent for this later. We do not consider this simple fact that nature is everything, we come from it and we go back in it. Our try to make nature fool is like a try to fool creator. All this principles are simple but still very few people will be able to understand them. Still, this world will go in the similar way further also.

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Fear of being isolated

The fear of being isolated is becoming a common feature in today’s world. Many people around the world are suffering from it and with the passage of each day, there numbers are increasing. To some extent everyone is affected by this fear. Everyone wants their friends and family members to be around them. This fear is eating many people from inside and making them psychologically weak. In present scenario we are busier in our own lives. It is not possible for children to take care of their parents properly. Demands of life and work are making us less available for others.

The people who suffer from this fear are either majority of old or children. At old age people become more insecure and if they are ill they become prisoner of one room only. This state of helplessness increases their fear and they feel isolated. In Children especially, where both parents go for work or remain outside the home most of time suffer from this fear. Even teenager are reported to have this fear because in teenage teenager want to live their life in their own way and when they did not get anyone on their side, they feel isolated.

Moreover anyone can suffer from this fear and at any time because everyone is surrounded by so many peoples still some times they are alone. It becomes even impossible for use to do justice with all friendships and relations and similar is the case with others also. It is more important that we should be aware of our own fears so that we can help other in their fears. In today’s atmosphere it is becoming more important to take care of these small factors otherwise they may emerge as large psychological disorders. By understanding all these factors we can improve our life and add some value to the life of people around us.

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Personal Loans- A new resource of money

Only few years back personal loans became an essential part in the financial services provided by the banks. Now they are an easy option for people for getting some extra money. For getting a personal loan, one does not required to provide lot of securities or guarantees. Many banks in India provide personal even with in hours. It is easier for a salary class person to get a person loan. Only he needs to provide the six month bank statement. More over the person does not need to disclose the motto of loan.

Personal loans have emerged as better options in emergencies or for sudden expenses. Personal loan can help the person in bailing out of crises. Not only in emergencies but a person can opt for personal loan in case of small requirements like purchasing a laptop, for small renovation of house. Personal loans are payable in small installment options. One can even choose a period as large as four years. All this makes it easy for person to repay the amount and simultaneously fulfill their requirements.

Today personal loans in India are available for an interest ranging from 9% to 11% depending upon bank to bank and option to option. However one should be clear about his requirements and should not indulge in wastage of money. If a person does not plan better then he can be trapped in the interest game. Therefore personal loans are good option if and only if they are opted with proper planning and for genuine requirement.

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Lady love can change person’s life

I am not telling some thing which is new? Many writers have also written about it. Then why I am writing on it? Because recently I got chance to understand and see the example of this principle. Nature has made man and woman in such a way that man is not complete without a woman and woman is not complete without a man. Those people who think they are alone good they are doing a mistake. Man comprehend woman and vise versa woman do. In all sense we are made for each other. Our needs biological, natural or emotional all depends upon each other. For a man getting a good woman in his life is like a god gift because unlike man woman have more power to understand the needs and transform the life a man.

Woman has the power to change a fool man in to a wise husband. They can change the failure person in to successful man. Those people are very lucky who get this lady love in their life. However getting a good partner is a big task. It is a simple principle of adjustments and understanding and it is not possible for everyone to be finely fit with other. For strong and successful relation both people should be compensating others weaknesses. Therefore every person before marriage should see for a partner who can make his or life more comfortable and rewarding for each other. Some people avoid this principle and got into unsuccessful relation. Especially more understanding is the woman more is the chances of getting a strong relation and simultaneously these strong relations help man in achieving success in life.

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Strong Media- Pride of India

Indian Media has come up with flying colors in recent few years. Today Indian media is playing a major role in building India as a strong and corruption free nation and they are getting successful in it also. Many people know India for achievements in information technology but very few people know about the achievements of Indian media. The achievements in media are stronger then the achievements in other sectors because they are playing a major and direct role in the insuring democratic freedom to common man of India. India has got freedom 59 years back, however actual freedom we are able to get only few years back. The major contribution in it is from media.

Today media in India is working as a watch dog for people. Media has helped in exposing many wrong doings. It has helped India to see the face of corruption. It has helped us to realize the true problems of India. Indian media is becoming a link between the different cultures of India and it is helping India in becoming a secular democratic country. Media is behaving same for everyone; it has no bias for anyone. Many cases where justice was not done are being reopened only due to the voice of media. Television industry has also helped Indian media in getting a big reach and expose. All types of media are becoming more popular with the introduction of new things.

There are many countries in the world where freedom is not given to press. Where as the strong foundation lead by our leaders and role model set by earlier media man are making Indian media a strong force. Media have the power to change the life of people of a nation. Therefore a strong and matured media is the need of time. In coming years also this unseen force of India will play a major in shaping India and making it an ideal nation to live.

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Successful Tips- Right steps at right time

This is one of the most important and necessary tip for a person who wants to be successful in life. For the changing circumstances and opportunities in life, we are required to be prepared in advance and most importantly able to take right step at the right time. If we are not able to take right steps at right time then the chances are that we remain behind the world and lose our all opportunities. This will make us a loser and closes for us the other opportunities of life. Whose people, who do not understand the importance of this principle, face lot of failures in their life?

Things become more difficult when we are not able to analyze and accept this principle for years. Between a successful and unsuccessful person this principle play the role of a key. It is right of every human being to reach the level of utmost potential and perform his duties. If you are not able to take the advantage of this principle then some other will take this opportunity. Therefore the need is to understand this principle and use it for the success in life. First step is planning about the life. Today’s world is very competitive and simultaneously it is very opportunity giving. So we are requiring analyzing and making a right move at right time.

This move may be opting for further studies, changing job or accepting higher position. Those people who do not take right steps at right time are always found struggling with the life. Life is small journey therefore it becomes very important to understand it’s important before it goes away from our hands. Moreover success is complimented everywhere. Everyone likes to accompany and live with successful people. It makes us to see the world in different way and open ups new ways for exploring new heights in life. It not only helps us but change the world for people associated with us. With this your children, wife, parents and friends will feel happier for being associated with you.

There are no big details which are required to be understood before understanding this simple principle. Neither nobody can make you realize this simple principle. It is you and only you who can make all the difference. Now it is your job to take advantage of this simple principle and change the world around.

Wishing for you happy and successful living.

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What is confidence- a money product or simply a self belief?

Confidence is the most misunderstood subject in this world. Many people do not know that what exactly it means and due to this they suffer for their whole life. Confidence is a unique property of human behaviour which can give tremendous power to us if used properly. It is very difficult to lead a successful life without confidence. Among two individuals of same age group, confidence can create a clear cut difference in their success. By analyzing confidence and increasing it to levels of required standard one can change the results in life.

I have seen many people in my life and how their lives are completely transformed by confidence. It is not a big secret, everyone knows it. However the question is that which path we should choose to get it. Like others I always thought that money is most important thing for getting confidence. I thought that money will lessen my worries about life and I will become a confident person. Now I am a successful person and have enough money for my living but still confidence is missing from life. I realized that even in the next few years I may earn more money but I will be the same person because with money there comes much other tension like retaining money and earning more money.

We usually get trapped in this circle and run for more and more money. No doubt money is an important thing in life and it has some role to play in building confidence. Yesterday I got chance to meet many people who have enough money but their worries are more big. Therefore their worries are decreasing their confidence level. Yesterday I also got the chance to meet people who are not much rich but they are less worried and therefore have much more confidence than others. They have strong beliefs about themselves and have positive attitude for life. It is simple secret to understand that for gaining confidence only self beliefs are most important.

Those people who have these self beliefs are more confident and simultaneously successful in life. For getting a strong confidence it is more important to have strong self belief or I can say confidence is nothing but a strong self belief.

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Is English killing other languages of world?

In recent few years, English has made its position very strong as world’s language. With the coming time English is going to become a worldwide spoken and accepted language; though, it is already well accepted across the world. However, all this is going on the cost of many other languages spoken in world. Due to the increasing acceptability of English language, there are chances that many languages will lose their strength or may be eradicated completely by spread of English. The strength of any language is its people, literature and acceptability. If any language loses any of them then it is bound to be replaced by some other strong language.

For example, in India there are many languages like Hindi, Punjabi, Marathi and Urdu etc. However the new generation is interested more in learning English than the regional languages. The reason is obvious, wide acceptance of English. All most all job interviews in India are taken in English; therefore it is very difficult to clear any interview without knowing good English. In India, a person will not be termed as educated unless he knows English. Here a 12th pass English speaking boy will be treated as educated person where as a person with masters in other regional language will not be given the same privilege.

There are other reasons which are in the favour of English or are helping English to become a world language. First English is the language of super power countries. First British spread it in the world and now most of the super powers are English speaking nations. Second reason behind the success of English is that most of the latest technologies in the world are available in English like if you want to operate window then you need to know English; though limited solutions are available in regional languages too. Third reason behind the success of English is its emergence as a language which is understood by the most of world. Now English has not remained the language of few countries but has penetrated more in other nations like India.

Today India is attending most of the calls of world through call centres and provides world with latest IT innovations. All this is making India a pro English country. But all this is happening at the cost of other regional languages, they are becoming weak from inside. These languages also have lot of knowledge stored in them. They have helped people for so many years. Many great literatures are written in them. If these languages get lost then great knowledge hidden in them will also get lost and this will be a great lose for mankind.

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Is it difficult to search a suitable groom for a highly educated girl?

This is a new question which is worrying many girl parents in India. It is a misconception in India that it is difficult to get a good and suitable groom for your daughter if she is highly educated. Due to this many parents avoid sending their girls for higher education. They want their girls to do conventional courses and settle for marriage as early as possible. Many potential and good girls’ students got deprived of successful carrier due this misconception.

Most of these misconceptions are developed due to reasons of old cast systems prevailing in India. People are still bound by their castes and religions and do not want to shift from these traditions. When the girls become highly educated then it sometimes becomes difficult to search a suitable boy from same caste. More over the demand for dowry increases with the increase of education of boy. Therefore many people fear from all this and do not want their girl child to be highly educated.

Second reason behind this misconception is due to the age factor. Usually in India age of 23-28 for boys and age of 18-25 for girls is treated as suitable age for marriage. Many girls who opt for higher education sometimes cross this age and got difficulty in finding a match. Women always suffer with a carrier dilemma and mostly forced to change their carrier options and settle with lesser options. All these things reinforce this concept and make a block in the mind of parents.

Last few years, India has started seeing changes in the mind set of people. People have started recognizing the value of education. We can hope that in few years all these situations will change in India and make it a more woman friendly country.

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Blogs V/s Newspapers

Blogs are gaining importance in today world. Many blogs are able to generate good visitors for them. Blogs have become a good alternative source of information for people. Today blogs are available on wider range of subjects and things. Some blogs are specialist on subject and others are general in nature. For getting and gaining information on net, blogs have become a good source of informer for people. Year by year, blogs are able to register their presence in web world.

Does all this mean that the blogs are going to replace newspapers? No, blogs are not going to replace newspapers in near future. Newspapers are present in the world for lot of years. Newspapers have become an important part in our life. They are still an important thing for getting detailed and trusted information for many people. Main advantage in the favor of newspaper is that they are run by specialists, unlike blogs which where run by ordinary people. Newspapers are a regular affair, whereas there is no guarantee for the publishing of a blog, they may be discontinued.

However, in last few years some blogs have also become professional in nature and running regularly, although there numbers are small. The advantage in the favor of blogs is that they are available on wide range of topics, which are not possible for newspapers to cover. Newspapers are run as big industry and involve many people; on the other hand blogs may be run by single individual. Newspapers provide the readers with information on wide range of topics, whereas the most of blogs are available on single subject only. But the coming technology is in the favor of blogs and it has forced many newspapers to come up with online editions.

These online additions are nothing but a detailed blogs with multiple links. Newspapers are controlled by the few strong industrialists, where as the blogs are in the control of common man. It is not right to compare blogs and newspapers at this stage, however certainly blogs are helping people with lot of knowledge which was restricted in past to few. Ads by Google are becoming a good source of income for bloggers and helping bloggers finding financial freedom. In coming years we will see more innovation in blogs and they will become good source of information for others.

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Role of parents in building the confidence of children


Do parents have role in building the confidence of children? Yes, they definitely have a major role in building the confidence of children. The one of major reason behind the adults for not having the confidence is negative attitude of their parents. Child is an innocent human being and he is in developing stage. Therefore he needs guidance in shaping his behavior and attitude. Most of his behavior is determined by his surrounding around him including his parents, friends and society.

Parents play the major role in developing the child, as they are most near to him and remain constant in his life, where as his friends and surroundings go on changing. All this makes parents a major role player in shaping the destiny of their child. Many parents due to their own inhibitions and stereotypes try to dominate the behavior of child. Confidence is the one of important thing required for the success of life. There are many people in this world who have every thing in them like excellent knowledge, good communication and appealing personality, still they fail because they do not have confidence in them.

Few years back, I also do not have confidence and for all this I blame only and only my parents. I also came across with many people who have same stories like me. My parents due to their own fears always restricted me from doing lot of things in my life. Unlike other children of the world, I got only restricted freedom to choose and live my life. Due to this I became a submissive and inward personality. It become very difficult for me to express myself, many times I got failed in interviews not for less knowledge but for not able to express myself.

Four years back I got a chance to read an article telling that the best way to deal with your fears is to face them. I started facing my fears and got success in my life and attained my lost freedom. This circle is going on for years first my father’s father put restrictions on my father then his father and so on. Today’s parenting needs more attention from parents towards their child. Children are becoming smarter and exploring unlike their parents. They want to explore their ways. They do not want to play safe games unlike their parents but they want to take the challenges.

Good parenting is an art. For becoming a good parents one is required to master in this art. Parents are required to reach to the level of child for becoming a good parent.

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Inside Pharmaceutical Industry of India

Pharmaceutical companies in the India have grown significantly in last few years. Ranbaxy an Indian Pharmaceutical major is among the first from India to become a Multi-National. Today Ranbaxy has presence in more then 65 countries. Many companies like Dr Reddy Labs, Wockhard and Lupin are among other companies to enter the world market and become MNC’s. Many Indian Pharmaceutical companies are responsible for the major acquisitions world wide. According to White House, Indian pharmaceutical companies are major threat for American pharmaceutical companies.

Most of the top listed Indian companies have US FDA approved units and quality standard are as per US guidelines. Indian pharmaceutical companies are able to gain penetration in US market due to their lower pricing and competitive quality standards. Many Indian companies are involved in legal battles for getting the patent of drugs in US. The weak point of Indian companies is that they do not have their own research molecules. However in future many Indian companies have their own research molecules for launch. Further success of Indian companies will depend upon the performance of these research molecules.

Still Indian pharmaceutical companies have to travel a long distance in gaining strength in world market. The major advantage in the favor of Indian companies is their strong infrastructure. India market is going through the face of consolidation; therefore we will see many acquisitions and mergers among pharmaceutical companies of India. India has to still make clear guidelines on pharmaceutical sectors. Currently there are around 17000 registered pharmaceutical companies in India. India pharmaceutical companies are also gearing up for the post GATE scenario and trying to improve their position in this period.

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There comes nothing free of cost in this world.

Many times on television I see advertisements claiming free gifts and services. I always filled with fascination when I see these ads. Many times I do impulsive purchasing due to them. The nectar of my whole experience tells me that there is nothing like free of cost in this world. Most the ads which claim free gifts and services are misleading. Recently I came through an advertisement of Idea cellular service in India. There ad claims that you can call first two minute free of cost anywhere in India through idea service. It looks to me a very attractive service. Most of the calls made are of average two minutes; therefore I thought I will do all this for free.

To my surprise when I read their plan, there is nothing in actual which is free. Only one plan which is of Indian Rupee 2000 provides few two minutes free calls. When I calculated their all plain then I observed that they are same as the other plans available in market. Like this there are many ads present in today media which are highly misleading. All most all the cellular companies in India offered life time incoming offers. Only one has to recharge his card with minimum recharge available between six months and he will continue to receive incomings for life time.

However, all the companies increased the other services charges on this scheme, which make this scheme nearly same, priced as the others. Most of the free schemes all like these schemes only; all of them are more in marketing and less in genuineness. Last week I have to purchase the shoes therefore I decided to visit the woodland showroom which was offering 50% sale. I thought I can get a big deal here. However when I entered the shop I got suppressed to see their marketing tendencies. Only an old dated stock has 50 % sale. The other stock which is some fresh has 40% sale and so on, whereas the new stock have no sales.

In actual they should have written that the sale is on old stock. Like this there are many examples present with everyone. If we can calculate then only 10% of the offers are genuine. Therefore it is advisable for everyone to be cautious when any thing comes like a free offer.

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Why Hindu Gods resembles with man and woman?

Nobody has seen the God, only few claims are there but no confirmations. Some say God is same like us and some says he is selfless. Many religions and people have there definitions about the God. In Hindu religion we worship God in man and woman forms. Most of the Gods in Hindu religion resembles with man and woman except few. The question arises how we can made the pictures of God when we have not seen them. This question has many answers ranging from different point of views.

One reason for the resemblances of Hindu Gods with man and woman is there description from old Vedas and Books. We have many old religious books and written more than hundred years back which gives description about the Gods, how they look like and but their powers are. More over these traditions are going years and after years. Current form of worship and temple construction is very old. For the last thousands years, there does not have come any difference in worshiping Gods.

When some one can observe the most of the gods then they will see the figures of beautiful men and women. Male Gods are decorated like the beautiful males and female Gods are decorated like beautiful females. Now the question comes why is it so? Does our ancestors have really seen them or lived with them. The answer is yes. According to Hindu philosophy God exists in two forms one is selfless form, a form which is beyond the reach of sense organs and second is the form like ordinary humans.

The first form is the out of the reach of human beings therefore it is not possible for them to describe it. Second form is the form of God as human, as par Hindu philosophy, God takes births and comes into this world when crimes takes over the control of world. God comes in this world to make us liberated from all these difficulties. Therefore most of the Gods worshiped in India come from second category, which is in the reach of humans. By worshiping the Gods in the form of humans, people actually try to worship that unique force.

Old peoples are very smart and therefore they made this way to reach to pure self. It you have to describe God to ignorant then the best way is to give example. Therefore Gods in the form of human is the best example for these ignorant humans. For example if you have to tell a cow how the God looks like then you will tell him it is a big, powerful and beautiful cow.

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Blooker Prize- a Booker Prize for bloggers

Are you a blogger? Do not worry your blog can get Blooker prize. Blooker prize is like a Bookers prize for bloggers. Only bloggers are required to print the whole or some material published in their blog. This printed book is known as blook. The blooks are only and only generated from the materials already published in blogs. Therefore Blooker prize an option to bloggers for getting recognization and fame.
Blooker prize is an award given to best blooks in the category of fiction, non fiction and comic. It is equivalent to Booker prize as Booker is given to best novel written in English by any writer belonging to the countries of British Commonwealth and the republic of Ireland. So far Blooker prize is not as famous as the Booker prize, but we can hope that with time Blooker prize will also get recognization.
Blooker prize is started by well know publishing website, lulu.com. 2004 was the first year for Blooker prizes. About lulu.com, it is already a famous name as it allows many writers to publish their books online for free of cost. It also share the revenue earned through this books with the writers. The prize money for Blooker prize in all three categories is $1000 each and over all winners for all the categories will get $2000.
All this provides a good hope and encouragement for bloggers. May be in few years we see the importance of this prize. The blooks which are eligible for this year prize should be published before 30, January, 2006. So enjoy blogging and publish your blooks.
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I have my dreams for you. (A father to his new born son)


Yes, I have my dreams for you. I want you to be happy and away from worries in your life. Therefore I dream of a world for you where you will have no worries. First of all I dream for you that I can give you a world which is free of pollution. This world should be as beautiful and clean, as is your thoughts. I will not allow anybody to spoil your this world for his small gains. I want to give you the piece of Himalaya. A land which is untouched the greed of mankind. I will never allow anyone to pollute our water, our air and our soil.

I want you to be a free person, free from the physical and mental pollutions. I do not want you to run in the smoke of big industries and drink dirty waters. I know there are some people who for there greed is making life heal for others. They are polluting our air, water and soil. I know they are making life difficult for you. These people for there greed eating the ozone layer of earth. This will increase the chances of skin cancer for you. I know the dirty smoke thrown out by big industries will make you more prone to asthma.

I know all and all this; still I am helpless at few points. I can only raise my voice for justices. Some may listen to me but this greed is so high that they will eat you. Still I dream for a good world for you, which has fresh air, green forest and piece of mind. I hope and pray for God that you will get all this.

Are we chasing life?

Answer to this question is yes. This is the story of most of human beings on this earth. For whole of there life, they go on chasing the life. Moreover, interestingly there chase never ends. When a person got birth on this earth then he is away from all these chases, more he grows in life more he starts chasing the life. These chase of life start in early childhood and lasts till death. As child person starts first chasing life. The things which he was not able to do in childhood hold them for his adulthood. He tries to convince his mind that he is going to fulfill all his desires when he becomes adult.

As adult he becomes busier with life and never got chance to fulfill his childhood dreams. He becomes more worried about the future. In adulthood also he goes on postponing things. All these desires may be of anything starting with a toy and passing through desire for love, money and recognization. Some of the desires got fulfilled and most of the others remain unfilled. More the person progresses in life, more unsatisfied he become and started chasing life more vigorously. The thing which most of the people do not realize is that life runs faster than us.

It is not possible for an ordinary man to chase and leave behind life. Life is a change, which is changing every moment. If we start chasing one form of life then soon it will get changed into some other and upgraded form. Here is the catch; we are trying to chase a thing which is not constant or following one principle. For winning this battle with life we are required to make changes in our self only. We are required to adjust our own priorities of life and choose our directions for life, otherwise we will be get trapped into this unending chase of life and die as a chaser.

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Do we require legalizing prostitution?

It is quite a difficult thing to give the answer to this question especially when you are living in a country like India. In India all these things are treated as bad things and any person who is involved in all this is treated as criminal. According to Indian law it is a crime to do prostitution and both the man and woman can get imprisonment for all this. However in few years India has changed dramatically. Now ordinary people can also raise their voices and most importantly they got heard.

Recently a sex worker from India Mrs. Nalini Jameela published her autobiography know as “Smriti Kak Ramachandran”. This is a first of its kind of episode in India, where a sex worker has come up openly in society. Unlike other sex worker Nalini lived a simple life and now she is fighting for the right of other sex workers. Some people admire her bold confession and some criticized her for all this. Nalini is a cofounder of Kerala sex workers forum and is committed for the betterment of other sex workers.

She has no shame when others say her sex worker. According to her she has slept with more 1000 man. This is a first of its kind of confession for Indian society, which still tries to discuss all this matters in isolation. However the main thing is double slandered of the society about this issue. There are many people in India who public ally criticize all this but behind the world they are involved in this. Indian society pretends very woman friendly but still every day many women are raped, tortured and burned here.

Nalini may be advocating the legalization of sex work, but I do not thing Indian society is matured enough for all this. Legalization of this trade will mean more exploitation for woman. It will make more women forced into this work, which is done today at lower scale. More over it may damage the social structure of India. However better work standards can be provided for sex workers already in this profession. A strict control is required for not forcing minor girls in to this work.

If some day this work gets legalized then there should be strict guidelines for all this. An age of more than 25 years should be must for woman coming into this profession and strictly no minor should be allowed to come into this work. Better conditions of work should be allowed to them. Any woman who wants to leave this work should be provided with second option of work. Police should check that any woman should not be forced to do all this.

We together can make a respectful society.

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India- Where Language changes after every 20 Km

Every nation in this world has there unique points. This article is a try to highlight the diversity present in India and not for making any comparison. As a nation India provides a wide experience for its people. In India you can scale the height of big mountains, enjoy the cold evenings of desert, spend your night in a deep forest or swim in the blue water of a sea. The north east part of India is covered by hills, most of which includes Himalaya ranges. Therefore north-east part of India faces sever cold in winters, one can enjoy the snow fall at most of the hill stations at India.

West of India is covered with Thar Desert. Lot of great civilizations of India has lived there in Thar. Thar Desert is famous for it beautiful evenings, its beautiful palaces and water resources. Most of the south, south-west and south-east part is covered by sea. This part includes some of beautiful beaches of the world. Goa and Kerala are some of the famous sea tourist places in India. Besides geographically India has lot of other things to present. India is only country in world which has so many religions living together and it is also the birth place of some of them.

The religions which can be found in India are Hinduism, Muslimism, Buddhism, Sikhism, Christians, Parses, Kabir Pantheism, and many others. India is a combination of old and new. You can see the high-tech world in India and simultaneously can enjoy the peace of nothingness. India is a so diversified country that after every 20 km language starts changing. Mostly spoken and national language of India is Hindi. Today English is the language which is in most demand. Most of the new generation of India is shifting to English. Festivals are the parts of life here in India. Whole year there are many festivals to enjoy in India.

By living in India a person can enjoy the nearness to different religions, different societies and different cultures. All this makes India a country of diversity. Today’s India is changing very fast. It is the second largest growing nation in Asia after China. Every sector and every part of life is seeing an upliftment. Present India is no more a country with small busy road, any connectivity and animals everywhere. Most of the roads in India are four lanes and even a small village is connected by road. Mobile phones and internet have penetrated deep inside India. More and more Indian companies are becoming International. Some issues still remain pending, however with time they will also be got settled.

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A Great Scholar and Saint- Maskeenji

Gaini Sant Singh Maskeen Ji is one greatest scholars of his time. He had not done any masters or higher studies, still his wisdom was much more than billions of people around. He was a great scholar of Sri Guru Granth Sahib. Due to partition in 1947, he had to leave his studies. In 1952 when his father died he lost his faith in this world and left his home for the search of truth. He learned wisdom of Guru Granth Sahib and other sacred book from various places and scholars. He led a simple life.

However his knowledge made him separate from the whole world. He became a medium in understanding the secrets of Guru Granth Sahib. His words are so simple and are full of examples that an ordinary man can understand them. He became a person who transformed the life of many people. Although he was a Sikh, however his knowledge was not restricted to Sikhism. He was a man of true religion, who has learned the religion, performed it and also spread it for the help of others. Most of the religious people who preach today only glorify their religion and are orthodox in nature.

However Maskeenji was the greatest scholars of time who has truly come above all this. Those people who have got chance to listen him know the power of his wisdom. He was a true Guru Sikh, who knows why he has come to this world. He led his whole life for uplifting others. His words have power to transform people. The work done by him will always remain a big achievement for India in spiritual growth. It was a day of grief for India when Maskeenji died on 18 Feb last year, however he will always remain alive in our hearts.

Tribute to Saint Sri Maskeenji
Kabir- A mysterious Poet from India

Those who can control their mind, can control the whole world


What we think about the world and how we perceive it all depends on our mind. For realizing and reacting in this world, mind is the most important thing for us. Our mind is like a processing system of computer which gathers all the information and makes us to react in a particular way. The software’s for this computer are our perceptions and conditionings. After analyzing all the situations, our mind work according to these conditionings. The main problems come when we totally go into the control of brain and spoil our lives.

Over conditionings and perceptions stops our power to think and analyze the situations. Therefore many of the decisions which we take are not actually taking by us. They are taken by our mind without making us realize about all this. We become so much burred in these conditionings and perceptions that we do not realize our decisions are taken by our mind. We accept all these decisions as our own decisions. Mind has immense power to create and present things.

It can make us happy for driving a car and at the same may make us unhappy for not having an expensive car. If we are not in the control of a mind then we will never indulge into these comparisons. Some divide mind in to positive and negative. They say we should be in positive frame of mind. However the question still remains that we depend on mind and mind can take u-turn any time. Mind is very smart in creating limits. If we start accepting these limits then we will find our selves in many difficulties.

It is the right of every human being to realize his true self. True self has amazing powers. It can guide us better than mind in life. Moreover the decisions taken will be our own and not of our mind. And when we come out of our mind then simultaneously we come out of the control of this world. True self make us to take smart and good decisions. All our behaviors and thoughts become what we want them to be. Our mental health becomes stronger and we mostly take good decisions.

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Ezinearticles.com- A good destination for new writers

Ezinearticles.com is not only a famous name in today’s world but it is also helping many of news writers and webmasters in getting recognition and visitors. For news writers most difficult thing is to get published and show the world their writings. Ezinearticles.com provides an excellent platform for all these writers. Many e-zine masters visit ezinearticles.com for searching articles for there e-zine. If they like your writing then they will definitely publish your writing in their e-zines. This makes more reach for your writing.

Therefore by publishing your articles in ezinearticles.com, one can get the chance to get published in many e-zines. Moreover ezinearticles.com provides a chance to showcase your writing to the outer world including news paper editors and publishers. You do not know when some one likes your writing and invite you to write in his publication. Other benefit with ezinearticles.com is they only publish quality articles. If there are mistakes in your writing then they will let you know about it and give you sufficient time for improvements.

Ezinearticles.com is also very helpful for small website owners and people running their online business. You can publish some information related to your business or website in ezinearticles.com and can attract sufficient number of visitors for your website. Many people have got help from all this. By publishing articles about your business and website, you present your self as expert in these areas and finally attract visitors. Ezinearticles.com have wide presence and acceptance, therefore it can provide lot of help to you.

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Welcome summer 2006

Finally I am here in summer 2006. I hate summers because it causes lot of sweating. It spoils lot of our food items. It is very difficult to go out in the afternoon in summers. Diarrhea and dysentery are very common. A small mistake done in food or drinking may cause disasters. Food poisoning is very common. All these makes summers a bad experience for me. However still it has some advantages, as it increases the time for work. Nights come late in the summers. Unlike winters you can easily wake up in morning.

In India summers starts in mid March and lasts up to mid September. Every year, many people die because of diarrhea, dysentery, food poisoning and other water born diseases. India has still to grow up in hygienic level. Most of India is covered with dirty roads, pounds and locations. There are no proper systems for disposal of wastage available in most parts of India. All these situations become alarming in summers and especially after rains. Government of India is still deaf on these common issues. Government has taken some steps but they are very less then the required ones.

At some places, people have themselves started coming out. New housing colonies are being made after taking into account all this. More and more places are now getting connected with sewerage system. For making India a clean and healthy nation not only the government but every Indian has to perform his duty. Most of Indian wants their homes clean but they never care about the cleanliness of there surroundings, parks and public transports. If everyone realizes his duty then India will also welcome the summer like other western nations.

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Confession of a servant

Yesterday I got the chance to witness confession of a servant. Earlier my thinking about the servants was not much good. I thought they are people who are physically strong but they have no intellectual. However the confessions of this servant changed my whole thinking about servants. He made my perception more clear on right and wrong. He was doing his job for last ten years. He was getting two thousands rupees as a salary (45$). He was feeling very unhappy because the other servant in the house was told to leave his job.

The other servant has worked for last fifteen years in the house. He was told to leave the job by the owner because owner found him guilty of cheating. The servant told me that no one in this world wants to cheat or do wrong things in this world, it is the world which make him do all these things. When the owner himself go for shopping then he purchase the things for 100 rupees and same things is purchased by the servant in rupees in 50 rupees. He told that if the servant retains these fifty rupees then there is no crime.

The other thing which hurts most of the servants according to him is suspicion on them. They are always under suspicion from their owners. He told that a servant always be given some freedom. Second problem faced by servants is not getting enough hikes in their salaries. They continue to work for years on the same salaries. When their families increase then it become difficult for them to survive on this and they may restore to wrong things. For maintaining a good relations with the servants owner require to have constant conversation with him and in conversation he must give due importance to servant views.

This conversation will help the owner in accessing the needs of servants in well advance. If a servant is given some extra responsibility then he must be dually rewarded for his extra work. Few extra rupees will not only some times motivate him but also encourage him to be away from wrong doings. Managing servants is similar to managing people in organizations. Only by doing few motivational things one can retain the honesty and commitment of a servant.

Smart living makes the all difference.

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What are frustrations and how they ruin our lives?

In simple terms, we can define frustrations as “the state of helplessness”. A state in which, we are not in the control of our situations, like some other foreign element is controlling our life. We do not like the situation and are not ready to accept its result. However, we find our self in a state where can not do anything about the situation. This all leads to a situation of mental agitation, an agitation which inside makes us guilty for not able to change our situations. In one word we can say it frustration.

In every one’s life there come many situations where we have no control over situations. Moreover, today’s competition making this world full with many of these kind of situations. Frustration is a mental energy and required to be properly channelized. If we are unable to control this energy then it could damage us. In the state of frustration, we started losing our thinking power and our focus became more on the element causing frustration. Frustration is a negative energy and therefore it leads to negative thoughts in our mind.

In most of frustrations we are not in the state to change the frustration causing factor, therefore we only spoil our own mental health. In some situations frustrations become out of control and the frustrated person may try to kill or injure the frustration causing person. Some frustrations are short lived but some remain as long as for years. All this depends on the individual person’s ability to take the life. For fighting our frustrations well we need to change our situation from a helpless person to a person who can change his situations. This can be done by increase our competitive level and gaining more knowledge.

Most of the people due to frustrations damage their life; however few people take them as challenge and use them for touching new heights in life. Many of the people who have attained height in their life are one’s who are able to fight their frustrations well. These people are able to channelize the frustration energy for their growth. The best way to deal with frustrations is to use them as a motivating force for your growth.

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My Most successful article on ezinearticles.com

One of my article got highly successful on ezinearticles.com and still gaining popularity. It is a my try to show the feeling first love and sex.
My First Love - My Teacher
I remember those days when I was in six standard. This is very tender age in all angles and a child is not much grown emotionally at this stage. Same was true for me at that age. I was not very clear about love and sex. I had never experienced love for any girl. All the girls in my class were same for me as boys. There was no restriction on sitting with them. We play with them and some time even touches them also. However never any feeling of love or sex came in my mind.
Every thing was going smoothly, one day a beautiful English teacher came to our class. She was our new English teacher. This was her first assignment. She had recently passed her masters in English. She was approximately 22-23 years old. Her body is average type. She was a clear example of how a beautiful and adult woman should be like. Her every body part is in mature state. This was my first experience of seeing a so beautiful woman. I could clearly see a huge difference between her and the girls of my class.
She started taking our class. I first time in my life had seen some kind of attraction for a girl. A strange feeling started taking over me. Whenever I seen her then I likes to see her even more. Dreams of her started coming in to my mind. I started attending her class and doing work given by her more seriously. I wanted to come in her favorite’s lists. I felt bad when some one talks to her. Day by day my madness for her started growing. I wanted to be remaining more and more with her.
I started dreaming of marrying her. These were my true feeling first time for some one and some kind sexual attraction was also present in it. I had first time realized the difference between a man and woman. I wanted to touch her and sleep with her. I wanted that she should take over all of my responsibilities. She made food for me, wash my cloths and remain with me for ever. These are unknown feelings which had gripped me. I had never encountered them before.
One day came when she gave us a test and told us that she would give surprise gift to the topper. I don’t want to lose this opportunity. I worked very hard for the test and stood first in it. Will announcing the numbers she came near to me and kissed on my face. For some minutes I was in sky. For me this was like winning a big battle. With this my feeling for her become stronger. Feeling of her lips on my face was making me mad. I started wanting to kiss her also.
One month before our exams news came that my favorite teacher is going to married this week and see would now never come again to school. I felt like that some one had taken ground away from my feet. My dreams were looked shattered to me. I felt very bad about the guy who was going to marry my teacher. First time a desire to grow early and propose her arises in me. However with the passage of days everything starts coming into normal. Again I became a normal child. But defiantly she was able to teach me the difference between a woman and girl.
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