Who is real victim in Amit Budhiraja and Rinku Sachdeva case?







Pictures of Amit Budhiraja and Rinku Sachdeva

It is really hard to believe that present educated youths have become so weak that they are finding it hard to easily manage their marriage relationships. One similar matter came to light when story of Computer engineer Amit Budhiraja (working with Infosys) killing his wife Rinku Sachdeva (marketing executive with private bank) and later committing suicide become top news of today. Amit Budhiraja blamed his wife Rinku for not being a good wife and having extra-marital affair with some other person in his suicide note.


According to him, he has recorded the conversation of Rinku with her alleged lovers on his Laptop which is now in the police custody. Both Amit Budhiraja (30) and Rinku Sachdeva (28) were well settled in their life and highly educated then why they failed in their relationship. Amit may have put blame on his wife for having some affair; however, he cannot justify any killing of a person on the name of having some affair. Many relationships fail in this world and this does not mean that people start killing each other.



It is not always necessary that every married couple are made for each other, every person has full right in this world to choose what is right for him or her. It would have been much better if Amit had accepted this truth boldly that we except from such educated youth of India then cold bloodedly killing his wife. For me, Amit Budhiraja is responsible for two killing first of his wife and then of himself. This incidence also reminds us about the need of emotional intelligence with general intelligence because any relationship becomes successful more with emotional support than intelligence alone.


People may be blaming Rinku for betraying her husband; however, do we know the real story of their life? Then why blame her. Even if she is having some affair or wanting to get divorce then what is wrong in it in free country like India where every person is free to live his life as per his will. In nutshell, my conclusion is that it was not agreeable to the ego of Amit Bhudhiraja that Rinku should leave him and he also showed the symptoms of excessive obsession and possessiveness. Therefore, it is not right for people to blame Rinku for these killings.

Also read- Inside cause Amit Bhudiraja and Rinku Sachdeva Case

11 comments:

  1. Amit did not commit suicide only because of her wife's affair. The turning point in his decision was suicide the perceived threaten of his wife filing a harrassment case(DV and 498A case) againt him and his family, which would have ruined his old age parents life for all the remaining years they had.


    Amit, an honest, tax paying citizen of this country acted in self defense to guard his mother and father. Every living being, let alone humans, has the right to act in self defense when faced with life threatening situations.

    It is a shame on this country and its governance that a productive, tax paying citizen had to resort to such an extreme step, in full state of awareness and sanity!!!, just to act in self defense!!!…And from Who??? A supposedly, democratic but factually autocratic, despotic State, driven purely by feminist agenda.

    He choose the path because he did not want to get lost in the tyrannies of this terrorist state, be labeled and dragged as criminals, by the govt/media which has sold itself out to the radical feminists, only to be released as innocents decades after.

    Kiranjit had the entire state, entire feminist machinery to support her. She could have approached any office and court of law. Yet, she choose to go for brutal murder after 10 years, of married life.

    Amit on the other hand, had the entire state baying for his blood. He had a zilch of chance to defend his life and the life of innocent family life from getting torn to shreds.

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  2. Amit did not have any option. Consider the situation. Your wife talking to her lover in your house and talking of filing a false harassment case against you, putting you in jail, taking away your future and damaging you for your life ! What women don't realize is that the unjust laws like the dowry law and Domestic Violence Law are pushing men towards the edge. I can tell you what Amit's future would have been - He and his parents would have been behind bars due to the false dowry allegations that Amit alleges that Rinku was contemplating. Generally, husbands have to shell out anything from 5 Lakhs to 4 crores to the wife to "compromise" so that she takes the case back. That is when the husband had been a gentleman (like described by Amit's colleagues). The threat of false accusations and seeing his family behind bars can push anyone to the brink. Add to that the infidelity (atelast perceived by Amit. We'll never know whether he was right or wrong) by the wife. His future would have been destroyed. He and his family would end up penniless, humiliated and socially destroyed while Rinku would have ended up richer and would probably have led a normal family life with her lover (if one existed).

    Who is to blame ? The Ultra feminist laws. Had the threat of a false case not been there, Amit would have probably thought of his future and who knows, maybe this tragedy could have been averted. But when your future is in jail due to a a cheating wife, the injustice gets to a man and he ends up taking law in his own hands.

    We should be prepared to see many more Rinkus and Amits unless the laws are made fair and just.

    God bless them both. They didn't deserve to die.. just because of the travails of marriage. Its the Law that killed them

    I regret the loss of lives.

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  3. Its really wellwritten frm a woman"s angle by a male.why put all blame on her?maybe she wanted out of the relation and i certainly feel,we must stop pamperng the socalled "male ego".There shld be counsellng given to all such males who cant understand their outgoing friendly,equal wives and start suspectng and spyng on them.so cold blooded of Amit to put camera to record her activities.

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  4. Look mate... I think you are on drugs.. Are you not ashamed to say Amit is responsible when the woman - still lives with him as his wife - having illicit relationship with another man !!! Some people could not take it man.. Wake up man.. No matter whether Amit is dead today, she got what she deserves. I think she liked the "servicing" by her lover better than Amit's...

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  5. It is nice to see so many people reading this post and giving their comments, though, some of the comments are not worth publishing. I want to clear that my writing are not directed to defend any one or put blame on anyone. I love my country very much and therefore, feel shamed when something wrong happens here. This incidence also reminds me about deteriorating state of Indian values which are otherwise very rich (full of respect for every living being, even for those who hate us or cheat us). I believe my country as a free country where every person has the right to live as per his own will. My Guruji says that we should not feel fearful if we are right and I have seen many people getting justice despite large scale corruption in our system India. We mostly try to defend ourselves, our acts and our decisions when we start believing ourselves as supreme even higher than God. While seating at this end, it will not be easy for any person to know the exact cause of this episode, people will only make judgements based on their perception about this world. Nobody in this world has power to change what has happened to Amit and Rinku, however, we can learn from their lives to make our lives more productive.

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  6. Just imagine how would Amit have felt when he took such a decision of killing his wife,a person from whom he got nothing,a person whom he wanted to give everything.I can realise how cruel destiny was on him. May his soul rest in peace and pray that no guy ever gets a wife like Amit’s.

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  7. It is obvious from the photos that the wife was very beautiful as well as very well educated and the husband was very ugly(excuse for the strong word used, but its the truth). Some men just become very underconfident and develop inferiority complex and just due to this start having doubts and suspicion without any reason. Rinku might be so much in love with Amit but due to not having confidence in himself he couldn't feel it. And due to his misbehave, control and suspicious she might have lost all her love and respect for him and might have fallen in love with somebody else. In that situation its not her fault.
    Who knows the whole story we all can just assume things and it can be something that even we all are not thinking only they know what was it?!

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  8. ya,i read in today"s mirror in an article written by his college frnd that Amit was a v suspicious sort of a guy.

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  9. After reading these comments here, I have noticed something incredible. Every man who wrote a comment have mentioned the injustice Amit faced and how is wife used him. I totally support their views.
    However, there is one woman here commenting how everything is Amit's fault and his wife was an innocent victim. This comment alone speak volumes about women and their selfish mentality. This concept is worldwide, women are responsible for nothing. Everything is a man's fault. They have no sense of justice and are worthless as human beings.
    I wonder if anyone still wants to marry these skanks...Stop thinking with ur sticks and use ur brains. Female deception is very easy to spot.

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  10. WHO IS AT FAULT ?? AMIT OR HIS WIFE?? DOWRY LAWS OR OUR SOCIETY WHO IS MUCH MORE ENGROSSED IN WHAT ONE GETS IF SITUATION 1 OR IN SITUATION 2 OR SO ON...

    THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE TO THAT. EVERYBODY HERE IS TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OTHER PARTY.... AND THAT'S TRUE TO ALL OF US. HOWEVER ONLY GOD KNOWS HOW MUCH AMIT KNEW ABOUT EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIR OF HIS WIFE.

    WOMEN THOSE WHO ARE CONDEMNING ACT OF AMIT..SHOULD THINK WHAT WOULD HAVE BEEN THEIR VIEW ... IF THEY COME TO KNOW THAT THEIR OWN SON OR REAL BROTHER IS FACING SAME PROBLEM IN THEIR MARTIAL LIFE... ITS EASY TO PREACH THAN TO DO.

    NON-VIOLENCE IS BEST THING.. BUT AS SAID DOWRY LAWS ARE PUSHING TODAY'S MAN TO COMPROMISE A LOT ON THEIR VALUE SYSTEM AND SOMETIMES THEY TAKE THIS KIND OF UNFORTUNATE STEP TO END THEIR MARRIED LIFE BY KILLING WIFE AND THEN KILLING THEMSELVES.

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