Murder and Suicide episode of highly educated and talented couple Amit Budhiraja and Rinku Sachdeva shocked whole nation. At that time, most of the people were forced to think that why all this happened with this modern and educated couple. What forced Amit to kill his wife and later committing suicide? What Rinku did which irritated and forced Amit to do this act?
Answers of number of these questions remain hidden under modern problem arising from the fight of male ego with modern female ego. It is still very difficult for majority of Indian males to watch their wives talking to some other males, hugging them or having proximal relations with them. This thing reflects old psychology of Indian male where male mostly want their wife to remain inside the walls of home and not to interact with other males.
Second some women of India are also crossing their limits and becoming extra open. After marriage, it is very important for both male and female to avoid such kind of activities which irritate the other person. If couple start indulging in extramarital affair and do not respect their marriages then chances of marriage going wrong are very common. Due to this reason, we see so many marriages not lasting for more than few years.
In the Amit and Rinku case situation also become so violent when male ego of Amit clashed with modern female ego of Rinku. Rinku Sachdeva was a modern girl and therefore, she had different approach for life and open nature, while Amit Budhiraja was still not much open for such activities. This situation caused a problem in their relation and series of other acts forced Amit to do such act.
However, it would have been better if both Amit and Rinku discussed their priorities clearly before marriage and how much free space they can give back to each other after marriage. It is very easy to make relations after or before marriage, however, it is a very difficult task to confine oneself within the boundaries of marriage and giving it full importance. I am not blaming Rinku only, however, I am blaming our decreasing trust on the great institution of marriage.
Any male will also be blamed similarly if he indulges in such relations after marriage which are not liked by his wife, in this case his wife can kill him or commit suicide. If a husband and a wife cannot trust each other or share their emotions with each other then they are not made for each other. These kinds of couple only fool each other and give wrong signals in the society.
Also read- Who is real victim in Amit Budhiraja and Rinku Sachdeva case?
Answers of number of these questions remain hidden under modern problem arising from the fight of male ego with modern female ego. It is still very difficult for majority of Indian males to watch their wives talking to some other males, hugging them or having proximal relations with them. This thing reflects old psychology of Indian male where male mostly want their wife to remain inside the walls of home and not to interact with other males.
Second some women of India are also crossing their limits and becoming extra open. After marriage, it is very important for both male and female to avoid such kind of activities which irritate the other person. If couple start indulging in extramarital affair and do not respect their marriages then chances of marriage going wrong are very common. Due to this reason, we see so many marriages not lasting for more than few years.
In the Amit and Rinku case situation also become so violent when male ego of Amit clashed with modern female ego of Rinku. Rinku Sachdeva was a modern girl and therefore, she had different approach for life and open nature, while Amit Budhiraja was still not much open for such activities. This situation caused a problem in their relation and series of other acts forced Amit to do such act.
However, it would have been better if both Amit and Rinku discussed their priorities clearly before marriage and how much free space they can give back to each other after marriage. It is very easy to make relations after or before marriage, however, it is a very difficult task to confine oneself within the boundaries of marriage and giving it full importance. I am not blaming Rinku only, however, I am blaming our decreasing trust on the great institution of marriage.
Any male will also be blamed similarly if he indulges in such relations after marriage which are not liked by his wife, in this case his wife can kill him or commit suicide. If a husband and a wife cannot trust each other or share their emotions with each other then they are not made for each other. These kinds of couple only fool each other and give wrong signals in the society.
Also read- Who is real victim in Amit Budhiraja and Rinku Sachdeva case?
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