Saturday, December 31, 2005

How we see it?

One day a father and his rich family took his young son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose to show him how poor people can be. They spent a day and a night in the farm of a very poor family. When they got back from their trip the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"
Very good, Dad!"
"Did you see how poor people can be?" the father asked.
"Yeah!" "And what did you learn?"
The son answered, "I saw that we have a dog at home, and they have four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of the garden, they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lamps in the garden, they have the stars. Our patio reaches to the front yard, they have a whole horizon.


When the little boy was finishing, his father was speechless.
His son added, "Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are!" Isn't it true that it all depends on the way you look at things? If you have love, friends, family, health, good humor and a positive attitude toward life, you've got everything!
You can't buy any of these things. You can have all the material possessions you can imagine, provisions for the future, etc., but if you are poor of spirit, you have nothing!

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Thursday, December 29, 2005

Surveys or frauds

By reading heading many people may believe that I am the next victim of surveys. To some extent you are right. Like many others, I also have lot of expectations from surveys when I first started taking them. However, even after five months I was not able to earn single money from doing surveys. Though, I have accumulated few points on some survey giving websites. I am lucky that like others so far I have not spent any money on surveys. There are lots of ads on net which attract people to join them by paying certain money. I feel lucky that I have not invested any money in these surveys.

Now, I know lot of things about the survey industry and many realities of it are clear in front of me after wasting my time. Therefore, my advice to all people is that it is very difficult to even earn 1000 rupees per month from it. Moreover, if people are any how able to earn 1000 rupees then they should be ready to spend 990 rupees in internet cost and time wastage. Surveys are no way an easy money making option. For taking surveys one is required to be expert in that field. It is not possible for everyone to be expert in everything. Most of the surveys are for US citizen or concerning to particular industries, therefore very less genuine scope is available for Indians.

There are certain survey sites which provide surveys for Indians also. Like, I got the chance to give views on the ad of British airways for Indian customers. For Indian the average earning per survey range from Indian rupees 40 to 150. However the problem is availability of very less surveys and if they are available then it is very difficult to qualify for them. Every survey has exclusion criteria. To Indians and Asian people all these ads may look very attractive because of big value of US dollars but in reality it not a good option.

There are also lots of fraud sites which demand money in exchange of getting surveys. However, after joining them people mostly do not get surveys and if get then they are not relevant. Some survey sites like Frontdesk provide surveys but give points in exchange of them and people may have to wait for months for getting any reimbursements. Many sites tell to give money but in the end provide other offer or free gifts. From my experience, I can only advice that surveys are OK for fun, however, if people are thinking about taking surveys seriously then they need to think again.

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Increasing dependence of Indians on Internet
Google/Adsense an alternative source of income
Increased Safety for Orkut users
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Bye-Bye Netscape Web browser

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Wednesday, December 28, 2005

STRANGE BUT TRUE

Below find some very interesting points which many of us do not Know.
1) Your body is creating and killing 15 million red blood cells per second!
2) The king of hearts is the only king without a moustache on a standard playing card!
3) The Mona Lisa has no eyebrows. It was the fashion in Renaissance Florence to shave them off!
4) The most popular first name in the world is Muhammad!
5) Tourists visiting Iceland should know that tipping at a restaurant is considered an insult!
6) Until the nineteenth century, solid blocks of tea were used as money in Siberia!
7) The Nobel Peace Prize medal depicts three naked men with their hands on each other's shoulders!
8) A violin contains about 70 separate pieces of wood!
9) Most lipstick contains fish scales!
10) The first product to have a bar code was Wrigleys gum!
11) No piece of square dry paper can be folded more than 7 times in half!
12) A crocodile always grows new teeth to replace the old teeth!
13) The sun is 330,330 times larger than the earth!
14) Clinophobia is the fear of beds!
15) A 'jiffy' is an actual unit of time for 1/100th of a second!
16) The longest recorded flight of a chicken is 13 seconds!
17) Dolphins sleep with one eye open!
18) The worlds oldest piece of chewing gum is over 9000 years old!
19) A sneeze travels out your mouth at over 100 m.p.h.!
20) In the White House, there are 13,092 knives, forks and spoons!
21) It was once against the law to slam your car door in a city in Switzerland

Getting divorce from Amir Khan

There are thousands of divorces which happen around the world every week. Divorce is not a new thing in this world and today’s relations are more prone to it. The reasons behind it are many like fight, altercation, mistrust or frauds. However all these things are not good for both the individuals because they both have to go through lot of stress? Whole life become disturbed and sometimes they come under emotional shocks. More problems come when the relations are old and they have children.

For adults it is still ok; however for children it is difficult to come out of this shock. Children are not matured enough to face all these changes. These are some of problems associated with divorce. However, there is one more interesting point associated with divorce. Like for example, when one of them is a highly reputed person. Recently a top Indian film star Amir Khan took divorce from his wife. Earlier, he had himself done love marriage. He had gone against the wish of his parents to marry his wife.

His wife filed a case against him and told that he has spoiled her life. However her words got no listeners. Initially, she got some listen from media but within few days nobody has time for her. Now media is busy in covering about the new marriage of same star. Everyday a new article is there about the star or her fiancé. Whereas earlier wife is also true in her words, as she has sacrificed her parents and religion to marry him. Now the same person has left her alone in life.

In India a woman is known because of her husband and they usually do not have their separate identity. Moreover if the person is a renowned one then it is more difficult for them to make their own presence felt. Therefore most of the women like to remain inside the homes and do not make any identity for them. Only difficulty arises when they have split in relations. Man usually gets the new wife but the woman has to face a difficult time and sometimes to accept compromises.

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Video of recent fight between Amir and Shahrukh
Major Setback to Amir Khan in Brother Faisal’s custody case

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Every one needs a friend to share

Every one needs a friend to share
Above line look ordinary to some people, however it has lot truth lied inside it. We are busy people today and usually have no time for others. We are over burdened by our ambitions. We run here and there to achieve our dreams. Some of us are fortunate enough to achieve it and others are not. Life is like this only. However this is cycle which goes on repeating itself. It is not necessary that those who achieved success today may achieve in future.

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With the time new faces emerge out and we have new achievers. Therefore everyone’s life makes a good combination of success and failures. In failures he wants to justify itself, where as in success he wants to share it with others. This is like a weakness for many. However we can not share all these things with everyone. For this we require a good friend, who can support us. Who listens to us and who understands us?

These kinds of friends are like assets and everyone has one or two friends of these types in life. They help us in coming out of lot of emotional traumas which we face in our life. They listen to us carefully and appreciate our points. When ever we are emotionally low we like to meet them. After meeting them we feel our self more balanced in energy. One more important point is learning this art. If we are good in this art then we can make lot of friends and people can easily trust us. This art is like a leader in carrier of many success people who have used it and got success.

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Tuesday, December 27, 2005

Some things I want you to know

Just a little hello ....and a BIG smile!!THE POSITIVE SIDE OF LIFE:
Living on Earth is expensive, but it does include a free trip around the sun every year.

How long a minute is depends on what side of the bathroom door you're on.

Birthdays are good for you; the more you have, the longer you live.

Happiness comes through doors you didn't even know you left open.

Ever notice that the people who are late are often much jollier than the people who have to wait for them?
Most of us go to our grave with our music still inside of us.

If Wal-Mart is lowering prices every day, how come nothing is free yet?

You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.

Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.

Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened.

We could learn a lot from crayons: some are sharp, some are pretty, some are dull, some have weird names, and all are different colors....but they all exist very nicely in the same box.

A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.

Have an awesome day, and know that someone who thinks you're great has thought about you today!..
"And that person was me."..... Please don't keep this message to yourself.....send it to those who mean so much to you.... "NOW"..

Sunday, December 25, 2005

Thank you god for making me a coward

Thank you god for making me a coward
Yes I mean it. I am always remained a low confidence person in my whole life. Due to which I was not able to take many decisions of my life. I was always fearful about the out comes. In front of me many people have taken decisions of their life and became successful. I always curse myself for not being a confident person and not doing the jobs like others. I had lost many deals due to less confidence and many people were able make me work according to them. I know everything what due to less confidence; I was not able do anything of it.

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However recently I discovered some more truths. I discovered many people who looked confident to me and those who have taken earlier decisions are now repenting their decisions. They had taken decisions in hurry and are now in trouble. They had chosen things only to show how superior they were. Now they are stuck in those decisions and I am free. One of my friends proposed the beautiful girl which I likes and married her. I was always angry with myself that why I was not able to do it.

However I recently discover that they have a troubled marriage and are separating soon. My friend told me that the girl is only beautiful from outside but she is very proud from inside and have lot of affairs. This is one thing where I thank to God. Second of my friend is very aggressive and he misbehave with girls many time. He touches them and some time kisses them also and get away with all this many times. But recently I read in news paper that my friend is caught in the case of raping a woman. Third of my friend is an outspoken and of fighting nature. He can fight with anybody at anytime. He was not frightened by anything. He does lot of breath taking stunts with his bike. He jumps from high roof buildings.

Recently I found his photo on the TV. The reporter was saying that he has blown the bus by tying bombs with his body. He had worked as a human bomb. I am happy that I am a coward and not have the guts to perform all this activities. Due to my coward ness I am not able to marry that girl, not able to rape any girl and not become a human bomb. Living my life happily and praying for my friends.

A thought

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In this lonely hour all that I need is you.

How truly someone has said in this lonely hour all that I need is you. There comes times in life when we are totally alone. Every one has left us and no one has time for us. In evening we are sitting alone on the tares and watching the sun set. We are alone at the tea and drinking it alone. We have some good news but no one to share with. We need a hand to hold but no one is there. We want to dance with some one but no one is to dance.

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At this moment we remember most our true friend or true lover or true life partners. Who is always present in our memories? Who is always there to support us? Who is with us in all circumstances? Who has done everything for us without a single demand from our side? Who is like a guide to us and showed us the ways in life? Who are there to give love when we need it? For some it may be his wife, for some it may be his friend, for some it may be his mother or father and for some it may be a guru or guide.

However the main thing is desire of wanting him at this position. This is the position where we want him more. We want him to come and show us the way to come out of this problem. We want him to dance with us and make us happy. We want to fight with him why he is not her at this point when we need him maximum. We say lot of wrong to him; however inside we love him and have trust on him. We know that he may come or not what he will always guide us through his prayers. We will never allow any situation to weaken us because he loves us also.

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Saturday, December 24, 2005

Leaving relations behind

We make many relations in our life and most of these relations are left behind with time. These are relations those we have made at different places and in different times during our life. For time, we remain in these relations then they provide help to us in many ways. They provide help in establishing our self at different location and providing us with a homely atmosphere. Without these relations we may not be able to live or start our life well. These relations include people who had helped during our life. These relations also include our neighbours, nearby shopkeepers and business associates.

When we first time go to a new city then it looks very difficult for us to adjust their initially and if this new place is situated very far away and it has different culture then it become even more difficult for us to adjust in that place. For surviving in that place we require lot of knowledge about that place and alone it is difficult for any person to attain all this knowledge. Therefore in this situation help of all these people is important. We take help from them and a relation of trust is developed between us and them. They care for us and treat us as their own one.

These relations are very important because they also help us emotionally and avoid many emotional shocks from time to time. In the different cultures the emotional or cultural shocks are very common. For a person who rarely comes out of his location, these shocks can be dangerous. Therefore these relations are very important in our life. However some people move again and again in their life and got many relations. Some relations become so strong even more than families and relatives.

Some time again in life we got chance to go back to our native home. We again go back leaving all relation behind. This place is much known to us and our all memories are associated with it. However we leave those lots of relations back and the sweet memories associated with them. Some relations remain continued with time and other submerges in the time. Though whatever we may say about these relations but these relations have played role in our lives. We are growing in society by helping each other and in return whole society grows.

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Truth behind the Pictures

We all know about Palestine and know the burning situation there. I am not a freedom struggle fighter of Palestine. I have never been there once. I don not know much about the people of Palestine. Only thing which I know is that there is dispute is going on between Palestine and Israel. Palestine people want a separate land for them, therefore they are fighting freedom struggle for more than last 50 years. Many people have come and gone, still nothing has happened to it.

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Recently I received a mail with pictures regarding the Palestine. These pictures tell very bad story of Palestine. How people are suffering there. It is very wrong that even today people are suffering in this way. In one picture mother was killed in front of her small child (hardly one or two years old). What is the state of mind of this child will be, anybody cans guess. There is no surprise if he become a terrorist in later age and kills thousand of innocent peoples.
We can not accept from him to be a good person. In second picture a father and son come under the cross fire of two armies. In the other picture the son is dead and father was in great sock. What is atmosphere which is provided to these people? Now I can understand how so many people become suicide bombers there. In the atmosphere we can not accept anything else. In other picture a woman weeping in front of a pond of blood.
These pictures are like a sock to me. I have also seen the time terrorism in Punjab (India). How the life of people become scattered. A fear always remains in mind. I have seen desire in many of friends to become a terrorist. What will happen when you kill their parents, brother-sisters, relatives and friends in front of them? We are living in civilized world and can not allow all these things to happen in this world. For example if there is a wound in arm and we do not treat it, then what will happen finally we have to cut the arm.
However this is not the right way of doing it and we will only know the importance of arm once it is cut. Some may say what they have to do with it and it is the problem of people of Palestine. They should remember that in the world of terrorism nobody is safe. Even America was not able to save its world trade centers. Which country is believed to be safest country to live in?
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Friday, December 23, 2005

How to become a successful writer-2

In my last article I discussed some of tips for becoming a successful writer. In this article also I am going to write few more tips. To become a successful writer few things are common and without them nobody can become a good writer. For becoming a good writer a person requires self-discipline and constant work habit. The other part is enjoyment of doing the creative work. Below are some of the ways of working of successful writers which can help the new writers in sharpening there skills.


1) Successful writers do not wait for inspirations to come. They simply sit with copy and pen and start writing. They write everyday even if for few minutes.
2) They do not waste their time. When they are not writing they make notes for future. Keeping a dairy for this may be a good advice for all new writers.
3) Successful writers can write at any time. They can wake up early in the morning, write in the launch breaks or can write when everyone sleeps. It is up to us when we want to write.
4) They are not disturbed by the disturbances; however they are merged deep in to their thoughts. This attribute may not true to everyone, therefore you can try to write in a place which has less disturbance. Try to not face the window while writing because it can derail your train of thoughts.
5) Successful writers work steadily. They have not achieved everything in minutes. A consistent and hard work is behind it. Arnold Bennett has said: Even mediocre talent, when combined with fixity of purpose and regular industry will, surely, result in gratifying success.
6) Ideas and inspirations for writing must come from inside like the most of successful writers.
7) There is no substitute to sitting down and writing. Human brain is like car engine, it works more when warmed up.
8) Sometime over enthusiasm make us over do things and causes writers blocks. In which no new idea comes in mind. Every writer, including many successful writers also suffers from it. The main way to coming out of it is to stop writing for little time and come back again afresh.


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If you think that HIV/AIDS is the world’s largest killer, then think again. According to the latest release of World Health Organization more people die of chronic diseases which are non communicable than the infectious diseases like HIV/AIDS. Three out of five people die due to chronic diseases.
Chronic, non infectious diseases included those caused by unhealthy lifestyle. They eventually turn in to genetic conditions. Heart disease and Diabetes, are supposed to manifest in families who, for generations, have adopted the unhealthy diet and sedentary life style. WHO also view that all sedentary life style related diseases can be reversed out. Giving up smoking, however late in life, has been known to repair and restore cells that have lost their ability to inhibit runaway cell growth, a condition that nurtures cancer. So it is never too late to quit smoking.
WHO projects that by year 2015, chronic ailments could kill more than 400 million people worldwide, almost half the population of India? HIV/AIDS has got lot of mainstream attention, at the cost of other equally deadly diseases. It is advocated repeatedly that a equitable approach for treating Heart diseases and Diabetics affecting large number of people besides polio and malaria. Nowadays people change their places rapidly. But it is found that chronic diseases are not affected by the geographic changes.

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Therefore the chronic diseases peculiar to one community are no longer restricted by geography. For example, Indian will high tendency for heart diseases and diabetics regardless of where they live in India or abroad. Life style diseases are called silent killers. Usually the warning signals like stress, over weight, overwork and lack of exercise are not taken seriously by many. India and China are more vulnerable for these diseases because of huge population, poor working conditions and sedentary life style. WHO says the problem is becoming serious, however the remedies are simple, involving change in life style and meditation. India and China have the advantage of old tradition of treating mind and body equally.
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My first successful Article

Today I am again republishing one of my article. This is my first successful article. This article is able to generate more than 10000 visitors for me through various sites

Three Ways to Make a Woman Happy

My relations with the women are debatable issue for many in my neighborhood. I have very good relation with the all of women nearby my house. They are all go on praising me in front of others. If I request for anything, my request is met instantly. They feel free and comfortable with me. They like sharing their view and feeling with me and like to listen the same from me. Many feel surprised by this and want to know the reason behind it. The reasons are very simple. Women are the wonderful creatures of God. They are made by the God to spread happiness to mankind and that's but they are doing. They always remain ahead to fulfill this purpose. Most of the women are very innocent and strive for only small praises. Women will ever unlike praise. This is the time tested thing.

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Many people have used it and got success. We can also use it and got success. But we require to have some caution in our behaviors. Women are very strong in understanding and analyzing behaviors. This is God gift to them. They can very easily understand the motive behind your praise. If they found it to be superficial or lacking feeling, then are likely not to respond for your praise. We are require to judge our praise well and avoiding repeated praise. We should not use complex praise, which are difficult to understand. A simple and sincere one is the best. Praise should we followed with constant efforts and simple behavior.
Second thing women most like is your concern for them. They feel happy if you show concern towards them. Best way is to put your feet in to her shoe. We have to come to their level and share their feeling. They usually like to remain in their shells. They have their own fear factors.
Before showing the concern, we should we aware of them. We should not try to break them. But by respecting their personal space, we have to show the concern. Just do this and see the result, you do one thing and got rewards by ten from her side. Even by simply showing concern for health can do wonders. Show concern for things related to her. She will like it, as a special care is given to her.
One more interesting point about women is that they like to be got appreciated in front of others. They feel very proud by this gesture. They like if their work or food is got appreciated. If you want to win the heart of a lady, praise her in front of others and see the result. Her feeling towards you will change dramatically. Another approach is that you should praise her in front her friend or known ones. So that she can know it. This will also do a wander. This will indirectly make a good place for you in her heart.
Best of luck for all, for their Women.
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Today I am again republishing one of my article. This is my first successful article. This article is able to generate more than 10000 visitors for me through various sites.
Three Ways to Make a Woman Happy My relations with the women are debatable issue for many in my neighborhood. I have very good relation with the all of women nearby my house. They are all go on praising me in front of others. If I request for anything, my request is met instantly. They feel free and comfortable with me. They like sharing their view and feeling with me and like to listen the same from me. Many feel surprised by this and want to know the reason behind it. The reasons are very simple. Women are the wonderful creatures of God. They are made by the God to spread happiness to mankind and that's but they are doing. They always remain ahead to fulfill this purpose. Most of the women are very innocent and strive for only small praises. Women will ever unlike praise. This is the time tested thing.

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Many people have used it and got success. We can also use it and got success. But we require to have some caution in our behaviors. Women are very strong in understanding and analyzing behaviors. This is God gift to them. They can very easily understand the motive behind your praise. If they found it to be superficial or lacking feeling, then are likely not to respond for your praise. We are require to judge our praise well and avoiding repeated praise. We should not use complex praise, which are difficult to understand. A simple and sincere one is the best. Praise should we followed with constant efforts and simple behavior.
Second thing women most like is your concern for them. They feel happy if you show concern towards them. Best way is to put your feet in to her shoe. We have to come to their level and share their feeling. They usually like to remain in their shells. They have their own fear factors.
Before showing the concern, we should we aware of them. We should not try to break them. But by respecting their personal space, we have to show the concern. Just do this and see the result, you do one thing and got rewards by ten from her side. Even by simply showing concern for health can do wonders. Show concern for things related to her. She will like it, as a special care is given to her.
One more interesting point about women is that they like to be got appreciated in front of others. They feel very proud by this gesture. They like if their work or food is got appreciated. If you want to win the heart of a lady, praise her in front of others and see the result. Her feeling towards you will change dramatically. Another approach is that you should praise her in front her friend or known ones. So that she can know it. This will also do a wander. This will indirectly make a good place for you in her heart.
Best of luck for all, for their Women.

Thursday, December 22, 2005

I know better than you

Today I am sharing with you all; a trait which is common in most of the people. Only recently I am able to notice it and find it. Recently I acknowledged that many people think that they are superior and what they are doing is right. These people are so much obsessed with them selves that they don’t want to listen to anyone. They think what they are doing is right and they are the better judges of their situations. There is nothing wrong in it also.

To some extent everyone is like this. There is a basic desire in every human to be superior. Everyone likes that his point must be considered and appreciated. We all are grown in the culture where these things are taught. The person who agrees to others is believed as inferior person. Due to this many people avoid to agree to others even if they known others are right. This tendency is a big hurdled in the growth of many. Many people don’t agree to others suggestions and advices due to this belief and fails in life.

This trait is not only limited to some poor or uneducated, however can be seen in advanced and well educated people. There are lot of examples of successful people around the world who have lost everything because they thought that they are best judges and ignored the advices and suggestion of others. I found this treat in myself also. This is present up to some extent in everyone. The main thing is realizing it and not allowing it to over shadow us. The whole life is a learning process. Learning can never stop and nor can anybody learn the whole things on world.

Also we should not confuse this trait with ones tendency to be different or like someone. When you are convinced with some thing you are going to achieve and you ready to face the consequences associated with it. You are not dependable on the results of it then you are not required to worry about it. Some things in life we want to do for our self only and also some mistakes are allowed in life.

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God please give me some money for going to school

Below, I have written a fictional but actual presentation of millions of children grown on roadside in India. In this story, a small girl is praying to god for providing some money to her so that she can attend a school and become doctor.

Her Prayer-
“God please give me some money for going to school, so that I can tell world I have something in me. Please tell them I am a simple small girl and have no fight with anyone. However, this world goes on making my life difficult. I am not doing anything wrong to anybody. I only want two things which are two times meal and few books to read. I also want to go to school like the other children. My mother works outside a big school. She breaks stones on the road for a construction work. I do not work with her, because I am only 6 years old.

I everyday watch children like me going to the school. They look like me; the only difference is that they come in cars. I wonder if so many children can study there then why not I? I asked this question to my mother, she replied that this school is for rich and we are poor. Further she told me that what I will do by studying. After two three years I also have to do the same job. My mother works for whole day, however she is not able to earn enough for three of us. My father doesn’t do any work.

He drinks alcohol whole day. He beats my mother and demands money from her. The day when my father takes away whole money then we have to sleep even without food. I want to study and become a doctor so that I can help my mother. I cannot see her unhappy. But I am sad that I will never be able to fulfil this dream. May be my mother is right.”

Name-Leela
Address- Road side, India

Also read-I am selling my daughter for hundred rupees

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Wednesday, December 21, 2005

Phobia- Fear no more

PHOBIA: A persistent, abnormal, and irrational fear of a specific thing or situation that compels one to avoid it, despite the awareness and reassurance that it is not dangerous.

This is how the American Heritage Dictionary defines it. This definition is particularly helpful in knowing the difference between phobia and fear. While fear is a feeling of agitation and anxiety caused by the presence or imminence of danger, a phobia arises when fear is exaggerated, irrational or unwarranted. Phobia can be of an object, an activity or a situation. There is a common misconception that people with a low self-esteem largely suffer from phobias. According to psychiatrists, a phobia can strike anybody, but those who get easily worried, withdrawn and are introvert can be termed as risk groups for developing a phobia.

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A phobic person develops a behavior pattern in which he starts avoiding not only the object of his phobia, but also the symbols related to that particular phobia. In time, some people get over the phobia on their own or with a little support from family and friends, but for most it comes in the way of their daily functioning. This is time when clinical help is required. Phobia can affect any one from a small child to middle aged person. If a person have phobia of moving through trains then he will spend more money on plane. A small child who has developed an extreme fear towards a teacher will avoid going to school. Another type of Phobia is social phobia, “Many people fearful of facing an audience or striking up a conversation with a stranger.”

Following are some symptoms of a person suffering from phobia.
1) Palpitations.
2) Hand Tremors
3) Breathlessness
4) Giddiness
5) Perspiration
6) Rapid, shallow breathing
7) A feeling of impending disaster
8) Exaggerated worry

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Who is a star and how to retain him?

For few years every one wonders what the star qualities of a performer are. There are few who tell us how to measure it; however everyone knows it when they say it. For some stars are born leaders, for others stars are smarter, stars are driven, they have the will to succeed, they are self confident and they are self motivated. These are same as the lessons which are taught at B-schools. However the experts differ with all this.

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They say it is not what people bring to party that makes them star, however it is what they do with what they bring. Most experienced leaders know it and are able to hire star performers. They also know that it is not only hard to get star performers, however retaining them is a more difficult task. Today is competitive world; therefore companies are required to search a star before the competitor does and then the retaining him is more important.

Some of the ways of retaining a star performer are encouraging him to be participant in cross function decision making. This helps the star performer break the monotony of his work demands and share his work experience with others. Second besides an increase in basic salary, star performer can be pampered with cash incentives and bonuses. Third are the other benefits like stock options increases their commitment towards job.

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Resemblance between a Woman and Mother Earth

In the last one week there are 136 mild earthquakes around the world. On hearing this one woman is replaying that how long the earth can sustain the wrong doings of man. This thing has to happen and more of this will also happen in near future. Man for his greed is exploiting her. He is extracted everything from her. Further she says that earth is always ready to give everything and she is doing it also. However all these things are required to be in limit?

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She said all these floods come only when the mother earth wants to weep. Her grief can not be as silent as a woman. She has more violent way to express it. Man is ruining all her wealth. Trees are also like her children; however we are killing them violently. We are dumping her with the garbage. We are producing more than required food from her still many of her sons slip without food. She does not difference between her sons. These are only some who are exploiting her.

She shakes with fears when she sees lot her son dying with out food, lot of her son are cut down for developments. Her shake is not small like a woman which is overtaken by man. When she shakes then no man on earth can stop her and we say them earthquakes. She further says earth is desperate grief like many woman. People are forgetting her identity like the woman. People are treating her as slave like the woman. We are taking her granted and not knowing we are slowly killing her.

In pain she will weep and shake like a woman, it is up to us how we see and realize it and how long we will continue to say it floods and quakes.

Request- Respect both mother earth and woman.

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Monday, December 19, 2005

An encounter with a beautiful Woman

Yesterday was a good day for me. As I seen the most beautiful women on earth. If anybody wants to know about how a beautiful women should be like then he should see her. She was wearing yellow sari with flowers printed on it. She was looking gorgeous. Anybody can fall in love with her in seconds. She was like a ready to marry woman, nobody would not think for seconds if he got chance to marry her. Her hears were shoulder long. She had left her hears untied. Her hear were playing with her face, some times they come in front of her face and then she put then back with her hands.

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It looked like that a moon was coming out of black clouds. Her body color in very fair. Her hand and face is like a white ice, creating a sensation in mind to touch this ice. She walks like a sweet breeze. When she passes near me, I feel a strange feeling in my heart. She as a whole was a great work of God. The person who will marry her will be very lucky one. I got the time to remain near her for whole day. Although there are lots of other people are also present. However my eyes were only searching for her glimpse. I want to see her and her more.
I tried to see her many times. Soon she realized that I was trying to see her. Then after whenever I try to see her she was always seeing towards me. In this the whole day passes and evening comes. I was standing on the side of my friends chair, she was seating in front of me. She was alone at that time. Now I can see her more clearly and she can also respond. Whenever I tried to see her, I recognize that she was already seeing. This is a good and strange situation for me. It looks like that she was interested in me.
However I was always weak in this field. I have reached at this gesture at my times, but unfortunately not being able to cash this opportunity. Second I was their on official work. Third the woman was so beautiful that I felt like small in front of her. Fourth the single day is very small times for me take any decision. Finally I decided to not to further involve in it and not see towards her. Soon she also realized this thing. Then comes the time of work off and she goes back to her home without seeing back towards me. At the end of day I lost again a beautiful woman. However still I am happy that I am fortunate enough to see a beautiful creature of God.
Love to all Arvind
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Saturday, December 17, 2005

Why woman sing more than the man?

This is the some of questions for which I have no answer. I have seen most of ladies sing songs when they are doing work or alone. Where as man are found very less singing. Is it some kind of trait, a habit? I request people to put their comments on this issue. All are invited to participate including man and woman. Although some may disagree with me, however this is a common observation of me. This will help all us to wider our thought process and understand one more thing. By helping each other we can make our lives better.

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A Foggy Evening with a beautiful Woman

It is the story of last winter. Most of the north India comes under dense fog in this time of year. I was on travel that time because of touring job. I was in the city of Varanasi of India. It is a beautiful city at the bank of holy river Ganga. Fog was so dense that nothing was clearly visible after 10 meter distance. I took the hotel near Ganga River from where one can see the beautiful flow of Ganga. My hotel was half empty because of the off-season.

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I was staying in the room number 306. For the whole day I worked in the city and came back to the hotel in evening. However that evening had something special stored for me. I decided to watch TV inside my room as nothing was visible outside because of fog. It was 5:30 PM; suddenly some body knocks at my room’s door. I thought it must be the waiter of hotel who must had come for enquiring about the night’s dinner. As I opened my room’s door to my surprise, I saw a beautiful lady standing in front of me.

She was a beautiful woman in her late twenties. She was dressed up like traditional Indian married woman. Before I could ask her some thing, she told me that she wants to talk to me. I asked her to come inside the room. She sat in front of me on the chair. She told me that she was from Calcutta and just come to visit this place. Her words found me some suspicious, as in India it is not safe for woman to travel alone and it is not practiced also. There are lot of cases happened daily in India, where people are made fool by the unsocial elements.

I decided to listen to her more. She was really a beautiful woman and her voice had some unknown attraction. She told me that she was in desperate need of some one because she can not do it alone. I asked her to be more specific. She told that she was running from her home, as her parents wanted to marry her with some one else, whom she didn’t love. She loved a man from this place and he had told her to come to this. However she was waiting him from the morning still nobody has turned up.

I told her what I could do for her. She told me that you looked to me a good person; therefore I require your help to go to his house. I did not know way, I got convinced with her words and decided to go with her. Inside-inside I had started liking her. We come out of the hotel and started journey towards the place. Fog was very dense and early night was also making it difficult to see. However she was walking very fast. I was only trying to follow her. After the ten minutes of walk some body hold my hand from the behind.

I looked back it was an old man. He told me where you are going, are you mad. I told him why? He told me you are running towards the deepest and fast flowing part of Ganga. Anybody who drowns their never come back. I told him what about the woman. “Who were you talking about? There was no one except you”, he told. Suddenly a fear runs through my whole body. Now I am able to hear the flow of Ganga. I thanked the old man and came back to my hotel. From the reception I enquired about the woman staying in the hotel.

He told me that there was no woman staying in the hotel. I told him the whole story. Then he told me that two years back a woman had stayed in room no 306 and done suicide at that point because her lover doesn’t turned up. He told me last year also two more people died at the same location, which were also staying in 306. However he was happy that he had not listened any this kind of news this year. I thanked to the God and in the early morning I came back to my city.

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Friday, December 16, 2005

Do remember to brush at night?

Due to my profession I meet lot of ENTs and dentists. My discussions with the doctors have revealed that we can avoid our most of dental, throat, nose and ear infections by daily brushing our teeth at night. All of us do brush our teeth at morning, however very few do it at night. Where as, the more need of brushing is at night. Whole day we eat lot of things and some part of them got stuck in our teeth. At the night the bacteria got chance to secret acid to digest this food and this causes the tooth decay. Otherwise if we have cleaned our teeth then bacteria will not get chance to secret acid.

Moreover brushing two times in a day makes our mouth more clean and therefore provides fewer chances for bacteria to grow. This also helps in avoiding other upper respiratory infections. Teeth are the beautiful creation of God. It is very difficult for use to enjoy food without them. Although we can replace them, however that advantage of original teeth never comes again. Lot of pain is associated with the tooth decay. We can either avoid or reduce the chances of tooth decay significantly by brushing our teeth at night.

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Tuesday, December 13, 2005

I am Happy, but Sad also

You may be thinking that I am gone mad. This is not like that. Some times a person runs against something for long time and tries everything to get it. After some time he loses all hopes to get that thing and starts his life afresh. Every thing was going smoothly; the person had also adjusted with the new life. He has quite well filled the gaps, made by the previous displacement. He has new friends and set of people around him. However the fate is more powerful than the desires of a person. Life again takes a shift. The things for which person was running early, suddenly come in the reach of him. He can easily get them.

This is situation of me at present. I have joined my company two and half year back at distant place from my home. This was first time when I was displaced from my town. I had been there for last sixteen years. Everything of mine was associated with that city. My friends, family and known people were all present there. When I first got known that I was getting transferred to a fare away place from my home then it was very unpleasant and unacceptable for me. I tried to stop it and get a place near to my house. However things were not my control therefore I have to accept the verdict.

I joined at the new location. Worked there, however a desire to go back always remain inside me. I got posting in the place which was totally different from my culture. People behavior was different. First one year was a really hard time for me to pass. Any how I was able to manage it. In between I have sent lot of requests for transfer, but all of them gone in vein. From second year onward I started adjusting well in to this culture. I got lot of friends ready to do anything for me. Come through many people who become guiding force for me.

Now the things have changed again, company has decided to reshuffle its whole step up. Lot of divisions will be merged to new ones and people will be displaced from their places. In this displacement suddenly I got the chance to again shift to near my home. Therefore I am happy that I am going back. Again I will travel on the same roads, meet the same old people and speak the same old language. However I am sad also that I will miss some of the friends here. I will miss those people who have helped me in seeing the life in new way. It only their love due to which I am sad. Now I agree that everywhere it is happiness and good people, it only requires seeing the world in different way.

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Monday, December 12, 2005

San Marino- Little Italy

First thing which comes into mind about San Marino is its tiny size. Completely land locked by Italy, San Marino is the world’s oldest republic and one smallest country. San Marino is a successful democracy which is governed by its own laws and institutions. Its currency is Euro and the character is very much main stream European. In a periphery that limited and small, there’s lots to explore and experience in San Marino.

The Royal or public palace, which is a neo-Gothic edifice in regal Romanesque style of architecture, is renowned for is daily change of Royal guards- the Guardia de Rocca, a popular visual attraction. Founded by Saint Marinus in 301 AD, San Marino is known for its medieval and historical character preserved in its public and private monuments.

The waxworks museum is a reconstruction of 40 scenes and 100 characters of bygone era. There is a state museum with its collection of archaeological and artistic treasures. The 14th century Gallery of San Francesco is another attraction. It has Maranello Rosso collection at the foot of Mount Titano, of 25 Ferraris created by the legendary Enzo Ferrari. It is a tribute to San Marino’s position in the zipping age as the venue of the annual Formula One Grand Prix motor racing that attracts fans from across the world.

In San Marino, no passport is required. There are no customs procedures to stop you; thereby making it world’s most visited republic. It is full of colorful boutiques, novelty and curio shops and art galleries offering attractive and competitive wares. San Marino is accessible from many directions. The nearest rail station is Rimini, from where buses bring you to San Marino. International airports of Rimini-San Marino and Bologna are easily accessible on motorways. Accommodation here depends on your budget. There are affordable hotels, while the Grand San Marino is premium star. All variety of food is also available here.

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Sunday, December 11, 2005

90 Days experience as writer

I have started writing seriously only 90 days back. Earlier also I desire of becoming a good writer. However I don’t have the required confidence in me. Many times before, I have tried to write something. However unfortunately they were not up to the mark. I have born and brought up in a country where English is not spoken or written much. Only recently some improvement in this area is seen. Therefore writing in English is also a difficult option for me. However I decided to write in English with the help of my computer, which help me in writing good and correct English.

In this way I started my journey in writing. I wrote some articles with the help of my own experience. Then I tried to write some abstracts of news paper articles. I learned this idea from shvoong.com. I wrote lot of new paper abstracts. Some of my abstracts on the shvoong.com also got some visitors. This increased my confidence on my writing skills. I decided to write some thing by using my imagination, I done that and got success in it also. Then I got the chance to submit my articles to article sites.

This is also a good learning experience. As I learned lot of things from it, because they usually send lot my wrong written articles back. I improved myself lot because of them. I learned to self edit my writings. I especially want to thank ezinearticles.com. In the mean time I also started some of blogs. Currently, I have five running blogs. I am happy they are also getting some visitors. I have grown few steps as a writer. Now I enjoy it and can write on multiple topics. Currently I have more than 105 articles published on net. All these of my articles approximately are read by 500000 or more people.

I have admiration comments in favor of me and also some criticisms. I have some people who like my writing. I am happy that I am able to put some of social issues in the light of world. I am happy that I got the chance to help some of few people and I like to do it again and again. I will always remember these 90 days, as they turned my life to a new direction. Now I have a purpose in my life. I always try to make my writing to be good on other’s expectations and determined from quality writing.

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Saturday, December 10, 2005

Office Politics

We all work in some office and also got the chance to see lot of politics at work place. If we are in office then definitely we are going to be affected by it. It may be direct effect or an indirect effect. Recently I have seen a good play of politics at my work place. I am working with a Leading Pharma MNC. Company has decided to merge our division with the other division of company. Field force of both the divisions will be now merged to make a new one.

However the problem arises when number of people in both the combined division is more than the required people for new division. Company decided initially not to have any changes at the junior level. Only the people of regional manager level and above will be changed first. Now only the one person from the both divisions can hold the position above Regional manager level. Prior to it many of the people are fairly comfortable with their places and positions hold by them.

They have purchased houses for them; they have put their children in schools. They have strong controls on their jobs. They have done lot of hard work to reach up to this level. But their destiny has something different for them. Most of these people are going to be displaced from their comfort zones. Only the people who survived of this battle are those who are expert in politics at work place. They have made good personal relations with the people on higher posts.

Therefore, when comes the time of distributing the job responsibilities, then the people with good relations with the higher bosses are given better options than the others. The others who do not have the good relation are transferred to the other unhealthy divisions. Here very less consideration is given to merit or the performance. Many people who have good merits and high achievements are transferred because they do not have good personal relations with the higher authorities. Also many people failed who have lot of trust on their networking. These all happening tell us about the role of politics in the work place. How they can change the whole world around us.

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